General News | 11 November 2025 14:49 CET

‎"Be Mentally,Spiritually, And Financially Stable Before Marriage" - Chiwetalu Agu Admonishes Women

By Oluwarantimi Oludase 

Veteran Nollywood actor, Chiwetalu Agu, has admonished women on the important requirements they need to work on before considering getting married.

The movie star, in a video message on his Instagram page, revealed that his best advice to ladies is to ensure to be complete before getting married, "The best advice I can give you as a lady before you embark on the journey of marriage is to be a complete woman before you marry."

He said that women should be prepared mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially stable before marriage, stating that marriage doesn't complete them, but rather complements them, "Establish yourself as a woman before you marry. Make sure you are mentally, physically, spiritually and financially stable before you marry. Emphasis on financially and spiritually stable. It is not marriage that completes you as a woman. Your work, identity or sense of completeness as a woman does not depend on being married. You don’t need marriage to feel whole, valuable or fulfilled. Marriage should complement you, not complete you. Marriage should be a beautiful addition, not a missing piece," he emphasized.

Chiwetalu Agu further urged women to prioritize financial independence, or a system that could work for them in their marriage, stressing that over-reliance in the man might not turn out well.

"Before you marry, build yourself up. Even if you are not financially stable, at least make sure you have something doing. At least make sure you have a handwork. At least make sure you have a business idea or a proper insight of what being independent is all about. God forbid if you marry into a family where your in-laws don’t like you and you have nothing to bring to the table, then sorry will be your name. God forbid if your husband divorces you over a small misunderstanding and you are not stable in any way. My dear, you will have to start life all over again because you leave with nothing. God forbid your husband dies and you have nothing of your own. If your in-laws happen to be a wicked set of people, they will strip you of everything your husband left for you" he added.

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