If you want him to fall in love with you, avoid making these 3 mistakes:

1. Don’t immediately try to connect with a man through his mind.

As a smart, independent woman, you're probably very good at shining during a discussion and engaging a man on an intellectual level. You'll impress a man and make him enjoy your company, but you may feel disappointed to learn that he feels no chemistry — even if you have a great deal in common.

For a man to fall in love with you, he needs to feel touched by you in a deep, connected, emotional sense.

2. Don’t mistake s*x for intimacy.
Despite what a lot of women think, men do not become attached through s*x — even if it’s fabulous. While every man appreciates a woman who enjoys being with him physically, this is not the reason men fall in love. s*x is only a small part of the whole picture for him.

Relying on a physical connection with him will only get you a broken heart — not a committed partner.

3. Don’t mistake a deep friendship for a passionate, emotional bond.

it's so easy to mistake the friendship that can grow between two people who worship in the same way, who care about the same things and who are devoted to their families or community. It may seem like a passionate, emotional bond when what has actually developed is just a deep friendship. He'll tell everyone what a great woman you are, but he won't be dreaming about you night after night.

Once you start making subtle shifts like this in your communication with a man — and speaking truly from the heart — I know you'll be pleasantly surprised at the closeness it creates between the two of you.