Patrick Doyle Speaks On How Men Handle Insults From Someone They Once Shared Intimate Moments With
Veteran Nollywood actor, Patrick Doyle has dropped advice on former intimate relationships to fellow men
The ex-husband of actress Ireti Doyle noted that men are usually pushed to the wall when he is being insulted by what they hold dear by someone whom they once had an intimate relationship with.
He went on to give an example of his friend who was faced with such a situation, and his friend reacted terribly to it, which caused a huge controversy on social media.
Advising men, the actor stated that men should be wary of addressing any issue in the public space or on social media, as it would escalate it. He urged men to instead put such issues to God to get direction in confronting such situations.
He wrote on Facebook:
"Nothing tests a man’s essence as when his ego and dignity are rubbished by a humiliating snub or gesture from a person with whom he once shared intimacy At such times, it is best not to react in the moment but rather pause and consult your maker. More importantly, never address a humiliation from such a person in the public space.
There is a Yoruba adage that literally translates as “The world should never see the perspiration of a husband on the chest of his wife.” Meaning whatever a man does for, to, and with his wife, whether ex or current, should remain between them.
A dear friend of mine is hurting as a result of his ex-wife’s actions, which appear to humiliate him, and he has responded publicly. I understand his hurt, and to an extent, I understand his reaction. However, understanding his reaction and endorsing it are 2 different things. Everything my friend had to say was already well known to us, his cronies and associates, and wasn’t the business of the general public. Now that he has made it a public issue, the wise and the foolish will feast on it, thereby extending the shelf life of the humiliation and prolonging his anguish. An anguish he should have surrendered to God, who would have consoled and restored his dignity in no time. In my opinion, no one must have the power to trigger me into handing over my anguish to a mixed multitude for their perverse entertainment."
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