BBNaija star Eriata Ese has admonished women on the steps to take to payback any act of infidelity committed by their partner.

In the wake of Frank Edoho's marital crisis, the actress noted how women are being cheated on in marriages, and they are being advised to repay the act by cheating back.

According to Ese, cheating will never make them feel fulfilled, but instead expose them to the same feeling of betrayal, and leave them struggling for emotional closure.

Advising them on the steps to take, she urged them to prioritize getting better, improve themselves and look for an individual who values and respects them.

She said:
"Women are being betrayed despite giving their best in marriage, and sadly, broken people are busy advising them to cheat back.

Cheating back will never give you closure. The moment you do it, you return to the same painful feeling of betrayal your husband caused you. Not only that, but you also end up proving to yourself that you do not value yourself enough to heal properly. Instead, you begin expecting someone else to fill that emotional vacuum, but the truth is, they never really do.

It is all temporary, and in the process, you deprive yourself of true healing. You may even continue attracting the same type of men because you never healed enough to recognise a red flag disguised as green.

Your biggest payback is becoming a version of yourself that even he cannot reach. Physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually upgrading yourself. Know God more deeply than you used to, and take your time to choose someone ordained by God; someone who will truly love, respect, understand, value, and adore you.

IF IT CANNOT BE FIXED
LET IT GO
DO NOT CHEAT BACK."