Controversial relationship therapist, Blessing Okoro, popularly known as Blessing CEO has shedded light into the issues plaguing modern marriages today.

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‎The self-acclaimed relationship expert made the revelation while speaking in a recent interview with Instablog TV, stressing that independence of many women makes them ignore their husbands once there is any quarrel.

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‎She argued that contrary to the notion that successful women make their husband insecure, "no man is intimidated by your success," but are only afraid of the masculinity that comes with it.

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‎Advising her gender, she urged them to be soft no matter the position they attain in order to keep their marriage.

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‎She said:
‎"In our generation, because I am working and earning money, even if I am quarreling with my husband, what do I need to go to my husband for? Once a woman becomes independent, they begin to rub shoulders with men.

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‎“A lot of people say that whenever a woman becomes successful the man becomes insecure. The truth is that no man is intimidated by your success, they are only afraid of the masculinity that comes with success.

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‎"So women should always remember to be soft, no matter how much you have, because once you start to drag shoulders with your husband, he begins to cheat and look for a woman that is softer or he leaves the marriage."

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