Seriously, marriage was actually meant for two matured minds to come together and become one but what we see these days is more of slavery, maltreatment and distrust.

There are lots of failed marriages we don’t hear of but that of Nigerian entertainers is becoming rampant and wife of Nollywood actor, Ik Ogbonna, Sonia, has decided to say the truth the way it is.

In her words, “It makes me sick to know that there is more women than men out there advising ladies, fellow sisters, mothers and daughters, to "try and make their marriage work" and "stay" by their husband's side due domestic violence or any form of disrespect or mistreatment.

“No marriage is perfect (I know you were about to say that bish) but there are things that are most definitely NOT considered as "usual" marriage crisis. Your mom didn't carry you for 9 months with so much love and care for you to become some else's punching bag.

"Stay for the sake of your children" - if I hear that again!! All of you "wise advisers", please tell me, how can a child EVER grow into a normal, mentally and emotionally stable adult after being traumatized with such a terrible experience such as witnessing a domestic violence at his home? For that sake I will tell you LEAVE BECAUSE OF YOUR CHILDREN if nothing else. Stop making women feel like they were destined to suffer!!! No!! You were meant to be loved and cherished, no matter where you come from, not humiliated, disrespected and unappreciated! FUCK SOCIETY!!!! Your life MATTERS !!! NO ONE CAN MISTREAT YOU UNLESS YOU STAY AND ALLOW THEM!”