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Nigerian Men Like Women That They Can Control – Phyna Spills, Brags About Capacity 

Controversial reality star Jospehina Otabor, popularly known as Phyna, has made an observation about Nigerian men, and the reason they cannot bag her.

Speaking in a recent livestream on Twitch, Phyna lauded herself, claiming that men feel threatened by the presence of bold and confident women.

According to her, the men in Nigeria are always on the lookout for submissive women, who can be controlled, adding that they are wary of women who are dependent and loud.

The former Big Brother Naija housemate, however, pointed out the effect of her audacity in the dating pool, revealing that it hinders her from being in a relationship, yet, she is unbothered.

“I am a ten over ten. The thing is just that men are scared of bold and confident women. There are someone women that by mere looking at them you know that you can’t control them. But our Nigerian men like women that they can control.

“They don’t want women who have says or are exposed. So, we that are very loud about how we are, even without they meeting us, they are already scared and forming assumptions. But I really don’t care."

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